“Could She Really Be Available? It Seems I’ve Just Found the Woman of My Dreams!”

Tuesday, June 8th, 2010 at 2:13 pm

He was not looking for love. Neither did he expect that he’d be drawn to woman, the way he did. ..

Gerald met Evangeline at a coffee shop in Detroit. She was beautiful and one single conversation with her left Gerald wanting to learn more about her. A marketing manager from Los Angeles, Evangeline was gorgeous. She had long, dark hair and eyes that made Gerald’s heart skip a beat. They began talking on accident, when there were no other seats and Evangeline offered for Gerald to join her. She ignored him at first, typing away on her laptop, but when Gerald said, “You look busy,” she laughed and began to explain some of her work to him. They ended up talking at that coffee shop for three hours! When Gerald learned that she was from LA, he was really bummed. However, she said that she visited often and would like to look him up.

This casual friendship later on progressed into something deeper and she would often stay at his loft apartment when she visited. Gerald was absolutely enamored by Evangeline. He had never met another woman that he actually wanted to marry and spend the rest of his life with. They would talk for hours, laugh like they had never laughed before and talk about their plans and dreams. It seemed so perfect to Gerald, except that Evangeline lived so far away. He often brought up that fact, in hopes that she really liked him enough to try and come up with a solution. However, she never did and things became strange.

Evangeline would get frequent call, snd she would always explain that they were business calls and have to leave the apartment to talk to important clients. She would be upset when she got back and no matter how many times Gerald asked, she said that she didn’t want to talk about it. He started to wonder if perhaps she was with another man or something else. They had been dating for around seven months when Evangeline stopped calling and didn’t come to his loft apartment anymore. He tried to call her cell phone number, only to find that there was a message saying it was no longer in service. Gerald was absolutely heartbroken and confused.

A friend pointed Gerald to an online service, NetDetective with the suggestion that he search Evangeline’s name. Although Gerald didn’t understand why, he searched her name anyway and found out where she lived, her home phone number, and her marriage license. She was taken. Gerald was absolutely dumbfounded. The entire time they had been together, she had never even suggested that she was married. Gerald didn’t know what to think. Of course, when Evangeline needed a ‘shoulder,’ she came by trying to make excuses, but Gerald was armed with his information.

Gerald eventually met another woman that he was very attracted to, and he searched her name at the very beginning! Finding out that she was, in fact, single, he pursued a relationship with her. He still shakes his head at the situation with Evangeline but thanks to NetDetective, he didn’t allow her to play him like a fool and he finally found the real woman of his dreams.

Before you pursue a relationship with that specail person, protect yourself with factual information that can save you deep emotional hurts in the future.

(To protect the identity of the persons concerned, names and locations have been changed.)