It sounds like a storyline of a bad movie – you meet your partner and fall in love, preparing to live happily ever after. Perhaps you even manage to live out your fairy tale life for an extended period of time. Maybe you get married and have children, or take off together to explore the world.

The hidden secrets your lover heart’s holds

Suddenly one day, your whole world comes crashing down around you. Perhaps you learn your partner was involved in some shady business dealings and now has the law after him. Maybe he or she was married before, and you find yourself confronted by a jilted spouse. Or perhaps your lover owes a tremendous amount of money to his debtors.

Every day, people learn life-altering facts about their spouses. Secrets that have been hidden for years come roaring back with a hearty vengeance. In a matter of a moment, everything you believed to be true has changed. How do you handle such situations? Read the rest of this entry

I am writing this post to help prospective employers who are looking to hire to fill specific positions in their company.

My husband and I had the privilege of working side by side to jointly run the operations of a financial company as part of the top management. Since this was not the only responsibility we carried at that time, we somehow saw the need to hire other men and women to complete the team and run the management task with them jointly.

When we were running short of candidates to be considered for the positions, we were referred an applicant who had a rather winsome personality, and likeable personality. To me, he seemed like a good match for the opening, and I must admit at the time, I was rather desperate to fill in the position.

On the other hand, my husband had intuitively told me that he felt that there was something wrong with the details he provided and he just couldn’t put his finger on it. He insisted that I immediately require this candidate to complete the documentary submission requirements required for his employment. I agreed but put it in as a matter of formality. I hired him in an executive position shortly. Read the rest of this entry